"Premarital counseling - don't get married without it." That is so true. This manual/workbook is specifically for men. It is thought-provoking and challenging. It starts off with "Questions for Men Considering Marriage." Ex. " Do I have the ability and willingness to cherish and love her as Christ loves the church ?" Some of the topics covered are communication, finances, roles of the husband, etc. The format for the manual is a short teaching on the topic then questions to be answered by the man. After this is done the couple comes together and discusses their answers. Remember, you're future is not about the wedding but the marriage .